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So when you walk into the field that your horse knows as home, do they come to you unasked? Perhaps they come to you when you call? And does your horse then walk freely with you to the gate? So if your horse chooses not to come to you, does this say something about your leadership (or lack of it)? Or does it say more about your horse’s desire to follow you? But does not the one imply the other, that by definition a leader has a follower? Perhaps. Yet should your horse choose to follow you, does that not make you your horse’s leader? Really? Or is there perhaps something more to following than simply a passive acceptance of “leadership”? Could it be that horses have mastered the art of followership and that it is also through this that we have so much to learn from them? Continue Reading »

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“You have a leadership problem with your horse. Your horse does not recognise you as a leader.” Your trainer may have said this to you on occasion or something similar to it. As a result, you may have shrunk into your shell and seized the first opportunity to slink off quietly to find a quiet corner in which to lick your wounds or rap yourself on the knuckles for failing to be a leader to your horse. But what does this mean, “being a leader to your horse”? Does it really mean what they tell us? That your horse needs to respect you and do what you want them to do? More importantly perhaps, we may want to ask ourselves if there is any sense in the concept of leadership in relation to horses and, if there is, to what extent it is meaningful and useful in our interaction with our equine friends. After all, if the concept of leadership in relation to horses serves no purpose, why use it? Continue Reading »

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For anyone intent on living intuitively, it is essential to be observant of and sensitive to what is happening within the range of one’s senses, understanding and, above all, gut feeling. Sometimes, if not frequently, it is difficult to make sense of the apparent jumble of utterances and occurrences of everyday life that inundate and clog up our perceptive apparatus. If you persist in your efforts to identify a pattern, you may discern a trend, a current leading in a general direction. This may offer a guide to where to look but usually no more than this. What is sometimes required, is a dramatic intervention. Ours came in the form of calls from the other side of the world notifying us of the impending death of our oldest equine friend, Gulliver, calls that were so alarming that we boarded a plane as soon as possible and arrived in Australia to discover that destiny speaks loudest to those that listen. Continue Reading »

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Today I celebrate the fifth anniversary of one of the most special moments in my life, the day when my mare, Pip, formally entered into my life. And as I celebrate that moment and the joy which I have been privileged to experience with this horse, I reflect on some of the lessons that she has taught me and the immense gratitude I feel for daring to learn them. Because these lessons have so greatly enriched my life, I would like to share them with anyone who cares enough for their horse to dare to do the same. Continue Reading »

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farinellimartin-connection1If you are a very ordinary horse person just as I am and your goal is to achieve a magical connection with your horse, one that will see your equine friend actively seeking to be with you while at absolute liberty to leave you to eat, drink or do anything other than be with you, what would you do if I were to tell you that all your current attempts to do so are likely to be futile? What if I were to tell you that you are probably wasting your time, your energy, your money? What if I were to tell you that, even if you do manage enough liberty work together with your horse to merit a short video worth sharing with the world through YouTube or Facebook, it is likely to be built on a foundation of sand which will in all probability be washed away the moment that you abandon the tools which have helped you achieve that, be it a whip, rope, clicker-trained cue or anything else? But what if I were to tell you that it is possible to establish a firm basis for true liberty play with your horse without relying on any tools, preconditioned behaviour triggers, conventional pressure and release methods, “natural horsemanship” join-up or similar techniques, indeed, without even asking or encouraging your horse to accompany you? Would you be interested in finding out how? Continue Reading »

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